What Do Your Direct Selling Customers Want?

Was at an awesome sales and marketing event this past weekend and the message that was coming through LOUD and CLEAR was…YOU MUST KNOW WHAT YOUR CUSTOMER WANTS in order to sell to them!

Now, you're probably thinking to yourself, "I already know what my customer wants! They WANT and NEED my product and or opportunity! This kind of thinking will get you into lots of trouble and even worse can cost you lots of sales.

Now to be honest with you, I've been guilty of this same thing! Example: I know I have the best direct selling success products on the market complete with step-by-step systems that will help you have more success than you ever dreamed possible. I know your investment in my products can help you!

 I KNOW YOU WANT TO SUCCEED! Or do I? Well, let's discuss this…I believe that everyone wants to succeed in everything they do and if truth be know that is most likely the case with many people but the truth is, I really don't know that is true about you! Maybe you just joined your direct selling company to earn an extra couple hundred dollars per year and you are perfectly content with what is happening (or not happening) in your business.

"I CAN'T ASSUME YOU WANT THE SUCCESS OTHERS HAVE!"

I have to discover what you really want and the only way I can do this is by asking FOCUSED QUESTIONS!

There is so much you can do to find out about the people you meet. All you have to do is ask the right questions.

Let's look at a couple situations where you can implement this. First of all there is your home party. Many consultants enter their home party with one objective in mind, to make a sale a quickly as possible and get the heck out of there!  It's all about how can this person help me? Now, what if you approached it from a different angle? What if you asked yourself, "how can I best serve these people in attendance tonight?" BUT, you can't just have a turn-around in your thinking you also need to have a turn around in your actions and everything you do at the party. 

1. You could begin with an introduction and have each guest tell a little bit about herself so you can get to know everyone. Watch each person intently and focus on processing the information you learn so you can help each individual later.

2. You can ask more questions during the party that are directly related to the products, the host opportunity or the business opportunity. Rule of thumb is you should have no more than 5-6 sentences and then follow up with a question. This will not only keep your guests engaged but it will also help you to identify their needs.

3. Use examples of certain situations where your product or service has helped other people and then ask the crowd, How many of you have ever found yourself in this situation?" or "How many of you would find this helpful?" Don't forget to raise your hand when you are asking a question that you want a response to.

4. When you are talking to the guest and taking her order keep asking questions to find out what her needs are and how you can help her? Ask a question, listen to her answer and then restate what she said and follow up with another question until you feel you have enough information to provide her with the best possible solution.

How much do you know your new recruit before you sign her? I'm hoping you know what makes her tick, what she wants from the business, why she wants it and what she is willing to do to get it! If  not you are seriously setting her up for failure and setting yourself up for lots of anguish when you try to motivate her to go out and book, sell and recruit! I'm a firm believer that it all begins with the interview and I know that was one of the reasons why my personal recruits sold 3 times the company average which put more money in their bank account as well as my leadership bonus check!

Now, let's talk about the Interview of a Potential Recruit. This is another area where it really helps to know lots of information. Do you know what makes your prospect tick? Do you know why she might be interested in the business opportunity, not just in getting a kit! Do you know how much she would like to earn each week and what she would like to do with her earnings? Do you know what she is willing to do in order to make it happen? Do you know if she is willing to receive the education she will need in order to help her be more successful? If you don't know the answers to these questions you are setting your new recruit up for failure and you are going to be beating your head against the wall every time you try to get her to go out and hold a party.

The "5 Mistakes That Can Sabotage Your New Recruit's Success and How to Avoid Them" Webinar Replay can provide you with lots of things you can do to have BETTER RECRUITS so if you haven't watched it here is the link.

Watch 5 Mistakes Replay

Here's a few things  you can begin doing right away.

1. Play the "Sponsoring Game" just like I show you in "It's a Party Out There". You MUST play it with the 8 questions provided so your new recruits will duplicate what you do. You MUST play both part One and Part Two of the Sponsoring Game. If you leave your party and you don't know anything about the guests in attendance and why they might be interested in your business opportunity it's YOUR FAULT!
If you don't have "It's a Party Out There" you can learn more here.

2. Make sure you ask lots of questions when you are interviewing your prospect. Many people find it helpful to use the Interview Guide that is part of the Blueprint for Mastering Direct Selling Leadership.

3. Do performance reviews every 6 months with active team members to help them stay on track to achieve their goals. Make sure you ask questions to find out what they want to improve in their business along with their 6 month income goal. You can put together a list of questions to help your consultant raise her goals to avoid becoming stagnant in her business. There is a great form that I used that is also included in the Blueprint for Mastering Direct Selling Leadership.

Take time to review these simple strategies and implement them as soon as possible and watch how quickly and easily you begin to increase your sales, booking and recruit's success!

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Secrets from Millionaires can Lead to Direct Selling Success

Wow, I had a blast this past weekend at the Glazer-Kennedy Super Conference. I really am amazed when I attend  a training of this caliber at the amount of successful people in the audience. I love hanging around entrepreneurs who are actively working to grow their businesses instead of sitting back and blaming the economy and numerous other factors for their lack of ambition. Many have an unwillingness to remove themselves from in front of television, or Facebook, or their i-phone or any other distractions that  interfere with working on what's most important, which is of course, making money! Many people will go out of their way to do just about anything that won't put money in their bank account. Few people will take the time that I did to head to Chicago for 3 days of intense training and take along 2 other members of our company. Nor would they justify the $3,500 investment to grow their business.

That's what distinguishes the Top 10% of entrepreneurs (direct sellers included) is their ability to identify that they can't go it alone! They need help from people who have walked in their shoes and survived, thrived and built a business in spite of what the "naysayers" have told them. I am constantly evaluating what I need to learn in order to stay in the Top 10% and then I translate it into methods to help direct sellers move up to and stay in the Top 10% of their company. Business as we know it is changing faster than ever and those who do not take time to learn new skills will be left in the dust. Watch for upcoming articles of my take-aways from this event.

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Total Body and Mind Makeover for Increased Success

This week I am excited to have lost 11 pounds since the beginning of September. I will work really hard to make sure these lost pounds don’t find me again! Laughing I take full responsibility for the added weight because even though I am pretty consistent with my exercise program I notice when I am traveling a lot I often don’t make wise choices when dining out! I’ll plan on just tasting the fries and then before I know it they are all gone.

Since the fantastic call I had with JJ Virgin the end of August I have been using some of her great tips and found they are working well for me. The first thing I did was dump my Splenda and quit diet coke. I never knew that between Splenda and diet soda I was actually increasing my craving for sweets. This has been working great for me and I can now pass by the candy aisle without grabbing a few candy bars for the way home!

The second thing I began was really watching my portion control. I now have 4 – 6 ounces of protein, lots of vegetables and greens and a small serving of complex carbs along with 1 serving of good fat at lunch and dinner. I FEEL GREAT!

The third and probably the most important thing I began was the “burst training” which is going 30 – 60 seconds all out at least 8 times a day. When I’m riding my bike I’ll do a 30 second burst ride for 3 minutes and do another one. What’s good about this is you do not have to do them all at once and I’ve done bursts on my bike and then I may run up the hill on my driveway 3 or 4 times. The bursts have been proven to reset your metabolism and set you up to lose more weight!

Then of course I have really been into motivation and training preparing myself for my BIG EVENT in Las Vegas in two weeks. I have been listening to 1 -2 hours of motivation and training every day! I’m keeping my head on straight so if there are a few bumps along the way they won’t bother me. I’ve also been taking time for me! I’ll sit and watch a movie (comedy or love story) and NOT FEEL GUILTY about it. I’ll get a massage when I need it, take a long hot bath to unwind and just nurture myself!

Last but not least I keep up with all my health needs. I get annual eye tests, physicals, mammograms, and dental check-ups. If I’m not doing what I need to do to maintain my health then nothing else really matters!

So, here’s my challenge to YOU. WHAT DO YOU NEED TO WORK ON IN THE NEXT 30 DAYS? Do you need to drop a little weight? Do you need to work on your mental health? Is it time for you to make your appointments for physicals and things you’ve been procrastinating about? (By the way ladies, October is National Breast Cancer Awareness Month so make sure you get your mammogram!) Whatever is preventing you from living the full and complete life you were born for is just a tiny obstacle in the grand scheme of things. SO TAKE AT LEAST ONE SMALL STEP TOWARD BECOMING A BETTER YOU RIGHT NOW!

For more information on the program that has helped me with my weight loss success Click here.

Direct Sellers Often Accused of Stalking People

It’s true! Direct Sellers and Network Marketers are often accused of stalking unsuspecting people, trying to trap them into joining their company. And quite honestly, I have to admit I’ve been the “victim” more than once. The fact I was a victim before helped me to implement a “system” for talking to prospects to “qualify” them to see if they were “right” for the business. Now, I know that many companies and many consultants feel this is ridiculous and just sign up everyone and then “go after them” to get them to work and qualify for you. If this works for you and you want to be known as a “stalker” go for it.  Watch this funny video!

BUT…if you want to have a much more effective way to introduce people to the fantastic opportunity that awaits them and immediately get your new recruit excited to begin his or her new business please do your best to join me in Las Vegas, October 23 – 25 for my Direct Selling Leadership Bootcamp which I promise will be second to none in giving you the complete “Blueprint for Mastering Direct Selling Leadership.”

Direct Selling Leaders need to have a sense of humor

“A sense of humor is part of the art of leadership, of getting along with people, of getting things done.” Dwight D. Eisenhower

I love a little humor in my life! I love laughter! I love to read! I have to fly! So I put it all together on the way home from the Private Quarters convention this weekend and I read one of my favorite authors Janet Evanovich’s book “Fearless Fourteen.” The first time I was introduced to these books was in the Houston Airport on the way to Cancun a few years ago. I watched a lady as she was reading and she was laughing out loud. Of course, I had to know what she was reading.

She was reading the Seventh of Janet’s books about Stephanie Plum, who is a bounty hunter. She recommended I start at the beginning of the series so since I had some time I went into the airport book store and purchased, “One for the Money”, “Two for the Dough”, and “Three to Get Deadly” and read all of them during my vacation. I laughed so hard a few times I thought I would wet myself! Everyone would look at me and my husband Larry would say, “what’s happening now?”

It feels good to laugh out loud! It feels good to see the humor in life when everything else seems so dull, dreary and depressing! While searching for a quote this week on humor I knew the one I chose was so appropriate for our direct selling business. Leaders need to have a sense of humor! It’s necessary to get you through the course of each and every day! Heck it’s easier to laugh when you get off the phone with a consultant who just ragged on you for an hour than it is to scream or cry! I know, I used to do the screaming and crying bit a lot and then I just started laughing. Sometimes people are so unrealistic and CRABBY that I laugh when I look at them wondering what side of the bed they got up on that morning. Laughing brings more oxygen into your lungs and brain. Laughter feeds the soul. Humor and laughter brings smiles to the faces of those who are exposed to it! Maybe it’s time to look on the bright side of life and find humor wherever you go!

Direct Sellers Will Love the Procrastinator’s Creed

The Procrastinator’s Creed:

1. I believe that if anything is worth doing, it would have been done already.

2. I shall never move quickly, except to avoid more work or find excuses.

3. I will never rush into a job without a lifetime of consideration.

4. I shall meet all of my deadlines directly in proportion to the amount of bodily injury I could expect to receive from missing them.

5. I firmly believe that tomorrow holds the possibility for new technologies, astounding discoveries, and a reprieve from my obligations.

6. I truly believe that all deadlines are unreasonable regardless of the amount of time given.

7. I shall never forget that the probability of a miracle, though infinitesmally small, is not exactly zero.

8. If at first I don’t succeed, there is always next year.

9. I shall always decide not to decide, unless of course I decide to change my mind.

10. I shall always begin, start, initiate, take the first step, and/or write the first word, when I get around to it.

11. I obey the law of inverse excuses which demands that the greater the task to be done, the more insignificant the work that must be done prior to beginning the greater task.

12. I know that the work cycle is not plan/start/finish, but is wait/plan/plan.

13. I will never put off until tomorrow, what I can forget about forever.

14. I will become a member of the ancient Order of Two-Headed Turtles (the Procrastinator’s Society) if they ever get it organized.

Direct Sellers Should Read Uncensored Sales Strategies

I just read “Uncensored Sales Strategies” and it was one of the best sales books I have read in a long time. One of the things that I loved about this book was it really gets you thinking about what “movie is playing in your customer’s mind.”  We could be talking about someone having a party and she is seeing a picture of “a lot of work, too much trouble, no one showing up, anda whole series of negative things.” The picture we NEED her to see is on of, “how easy it will be, how much fun it will be, your friends will love the experience!” So, it’s time to start working on CREATING BETTER PICTURES for your customers.

Check it out now on Amazon

Direct Selling Leadership Teleseminar Part 2

If you listened to the first direct selling leadership teleseminar you discovered how to sponsor new recruits and begin to set them up for success. Join me for part two of the leadership teleseminar series on Monday, July 27′th at 1:00 p.m. Eastern, 12:00 p.m. Central, 11:00 a.m. Mountain, 10:00 a.m. Pacific and Arizona OR 9:00 p.m. Eastern, 8:00 p.m. Central, 7:00 p.m. Mountain and 6:00 p.m. Pacific and Arizona!

Register for Teleseminar

If you haven’t registered for the “second to none direct selling leadership bootcamp” to be held October 23 – 25′th in Las Vegas what are you waiting for. Let me help you increase your income by tens of thousands of dollars next year!

Women are Powerful

Someone shared this with me and it’s too good not to share with others. I believe women are God’s perfect creature. Here’s to ALL OF YOU , may you NEVER FORGET YOUR WORTH!

One Flaw in Women

Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness, love and joy.

They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.

They don’t take “no” for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.

They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.

They are happy when they hear about
a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they
think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss
can heal a broken heart.

Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.

They’ll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you.

The heart of a woman is what
makes the world keep turning.

They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideas.
They give moral support to their
family and friends.

Women have vital things to say
and everything to give.

HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,
IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.

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Direct Selling Booking Teleseminar

JULY BOOKING BONANZA TELESEMINAR

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I want you to join me for the monthly teleseminar that has already helped thousands of direct sellers add more bookings to their calendar. I’ll empower you by providing you with the words to say when you make those all important phone calls. You’ll learn how to control your booking calendar to work only when YOU WANT TO WORK (after all isn’t that one of the reasons you joined your direct selling company?

The call is free and will last approximately 75 minutes so clear your calendar and find a quiet place to listen and by all means get your writing hand ready. This content filled teleseminar is filled with information that when implemented will add thousands of dollars in sales and earnings! This call is not replayed so if you Snooze You Lose and you’ll have to wait until August for the next teleseminar!

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Here’s what past participants are saying about previous calls:

Karen, I just wanted to send you a quick note about the 5 calls for 10 days. I got a booking with my 1st phone call.  Wording it different made all the difference in the world!  She couldn’t say no!!!! Cherry Harp

Karen: I recently had the pleasure of listening in on the booking teleseminar and it was outstanding! It was exactly the “shot in the arm and kick in the pants I needed to get moving again!” Every time I tune in to one of your teleseminars, I learn some new and valuable techniques and verbage that I can use to motivate not only myself but to pass along to my team. It also gave me positive confirmation that what I am doing is right! You never cease to thrill me with your charm, wit and expertise. It is always so great to hear it “live” as opposed to reading a book. Thank You! I can’t wait until the next one! Sherry Steffen, Division Manager for Jewels by Park Lane

“Hi Karen, First of all thank you for your time last night. The call was very informative and motivating. So I got off the phone going, wow, this is great and I know it will work, however, I don’t have anywhere near 50 people I could call. So, I thought well hell, I will give it a try, and call 5 people tonight and see where it goes, I don’t have anything to lose.. I booked 2 parties, and I booked a party for one of our other consultants because I could not accommodate the date they needed. (already had a party) Thanks again!! You are wonderful!!” Kathy Phelan Because I did not have anywhere near 50 people to call, I offered a bonus gift, to my first 5 calls if they could come up with 3 referrals each within the next 48 hours. I got a call this morning with my first 3 referrals! Thanks again, you are wonderful. Kathy Phelan